We are on vacation.
Hashtag: life; reality; parenting; humor
No rest for the wicked…
Oh, wait. I mean the mommies (smile and wink).
Greetings from La Jolla sunny California!
Okay, we have had a lot of laughs on this particular blog site about eyebrows. I, alone, am a living, walking, talking, breathing eyebrow failure of a woman. BUT TODAY…today it was all about a lesson my son was teaching my youngest daughter. And, I am willing to bet, it’s a lesson that YOU, AS WELL, didn’t even know 😉
Maxwell (age 4), sitting at our lovely farmhouse renovated table, messy hair, and slightly hoarse morning voice, eating the “talking” cereal with his little sister, GoGo Bean (aka Josephine Diane), looked excitedly at her and proclaimed, “JOSEPHINE!!!!! You’re growing EYEBROWS! Soon you’re going to turn into a MAN!”
And as excited as he was for Josephine to turn into a man, this newfound knowledge did not sit as well with his 3-year-old sister who then proceed to cry, “I DON’T WANT EYEBROWS!”
Entertainment abounds, my friends…
Even in the art of eyebrows!
I was dying today talking about my life with friends that I only have the immense love & privilege of seeing one time a year when I fly from Poland to the States to see and be with my parents and family.
Like…I was on such a roll—sometimes I don’t know how I pull myself off of the floor and actually walk around in this life-like motion at all. I should be more like Walking Dead Momma—and my kids should be GRATEFUL for that momma.
Anyhow—it totally dawned on me today that I am just a bit of drama.
You see, I thought my daughter was all of the drama.
I thought she got it from her daddy.
He is the Drama King. I made him a crown.
But today when I was recounting all of my guilt trips and psycho parenting moments with my children and my HOW DARE MY HUSBAND SAY THAT stories, my peeps…my tribe…those that will ALWAYS tell me the truth told me that I was the drama.
I literally had no clue. HERE I WAS—blaming ALL of the drama on pretty much EVERYONE else in my family.
It’s kind of like those that have problems with everyone they meet—turns out it is THEM! Yep—the ones with all of the problems.
Apparently, out of the mouth of true friends, I am that THEM.
But, please, please, please, please…let’s totally keep this a secret from my husband. I still need him to think that it is ALWAYS ALL HIS FAULT!
I need this.
It is what is best for the family, right?!
(smile smile wink wink)
Well, wouldn’t you know…I must not know how to make pancakes—as no baking soda is needed. And I forgot one key ingredient in the nalesniki batter when spouting out what it takes, milk! But, in the end, it doesn’t really matter because I look at the recipe when making my batter so what is needed makes it and what isn’t to be there remains out. PHEW!
How did this start…Well, I was in the kitchen making the nalesniki and my house was unusually quiet. 3 kids were upstairs playing school and my littlest, Josephine, was at the doctor with her daddy. My dogs were outside, and I didn’t even have the radio on. That’s when I decided to just hit record and start talking through my process. Which is quite apparent due to my extremely ELEGANT appearance and fashionista stylin’ (big wowzer!!!!).
And, OOPS…the batter was already made. But, don’t worry, here’s the link to the recipe I use:
For this video, I was making the sweet recipe, and I had doubled it so it could feed 6.
Anyhow, enjoy! Or, as they would say in Polish, Smacznego!
We sure did.
And, let me assure you…I am not pregnant. This camera added about 6 months of pregnancy pounds. I mean—I have weight to lose but not 6 months of baby (smile and wink)!
Maxwell says every day, “When I grow more bigger…”
Well, Maxwell, today is your “Grow More Bigger” Day!
You are here.
Happy birthday, our precious boy.
Hopefully, one day, you’ll be able to look back at this slideshow of the first 4 years of your life and say, “I MADE IT! I grew more bigger.”
But, in the meantime, I want to share the 4 things that I have learned from you:
We love you now and will forever, our boy. Sto lat,
Your Momma, Your Daddy, Your Adelyne, and Your GoGo Baby (aka Your Josephine)
Now for a classic…And, yes, Paul, we do say it is his birthday!
“Now, Maxie?” Josephine shouted.
“Not yet, GoGo!” Max responded.
They were sitting on two little roller coasters that you push with your feet, waiting one for the other to go down the little slope.
And, because her big hero brother said “Not yet” she waited and said, “Okay, Maxie…”
Then he would count, “One, two, three, GO!”
Their chubby little feet would paddle the ground and they would begin the slight decline down the coaster to soar onto the open floor.
Smiles and joy and squeals accompanying their little rides.
Then one would shout, without hesitation, “Let’s do it again!”
And off they’d push their cars to the top to begin again.
Friends—my two Littles are utterly exhausting. I’m like super tired. And they fight. And they roll on the ground. And they don’t like their food to touch—or when I cut their toast the wrong way.
My eyes are held open by VERY strong coffee…
But it’s ALL so worth it.
And my stomach is already nostalgic for the future loss of my Littles.
My decade daughter, as she calls herself, was once my Little…and I enjoyed every minute of it (let’s not relish in her own toddler tantrums that also split my hairs 😉 )…
She, in all of her innocent wonder, was my sunshine on any cloudy day. And, believe me, in Poland there are a LOT of cloudy days.
Now she’s the epitome of beauty and grace. She is tall and slender and lovely with a touch of awkward. And growing. She will, without any doubt in my mind, be a beautiful, successful, creative, and compassionate young lady—I already see that in her.
But it does not mean I don’t miss my Sweet Adelyne that used to skate on flour and make tea parties for her daddy with all of her dollies.
She has phased into young lady—that, very thankfully, still likes to occasionally play dolls, too!
And as my little miracle approaches his fourth birthday, I think. No, I know that I am already missing him.
My toddler, naked bottom Max—without a care in the world.
Can I squish him into Little-ness forever?
Probably not—but I capture every moment of each of our days—the good and bad—on the reel of my on-going memory maker—the core of my heart…because I know that, as they grow, I will enjoy each new phase—but it will not mean that I will not miss the last one.
Josephine asked Maxie if he was ready—and he said “Not yet.”
Maxie—I am not ready, yet, either.
Please don’t grow.
But just like they paddled their feet and took off, I know what fate awaits me…
Their wild ride.
Photo credit: Inga Rurek
No. Really. Today was the day that I was having a super hard time approaching. I know—many are in the club. Many say it’s the best time in life. Many have many things to say.
But this day for me was a VERY reflective day.
My life. It’s halfway. I am at the marker.
Yes. Technically with the genes that run in my family, I may live to be 100. God willing. But I may not. And, so, as I approached this day, I did so with great reflection of every day—every year—and every moment that led up to this moment. The first half of my life…
It’s a big deal to know that you have accomplished a milestone such as the First Half of Your Life.
My daughter asked me if I felt any older today. I said, “No. I still feel 18.”
And she laughed and said when she turned a decade (this is how old she calls herself) she still, also, felt only 9.
That’s the thing. I don’t feel the 4-0. When I was pregnant just a couple years ago…I felt the 9-0—but, not pregnant, I feel rather GREAT. And yet I still must pause and actually realize that I am at a HUGE point in my life. A point that says, “You have completed half of your life…Now, the question is, what are you going to do with the rest of it?”
It’s making me REALLY think hard!
Yes. A four-door-jeep would be my mid-life crisis car…So I hope to have one of those one day.
I am not a cougar—nor do I ever want to “TRAIN” another husband. Therefore, I’ll keep the hottie that is the better half of this blog’s title 😉 (Oh—and I believe in God’s gift of marriage—therefore, I shall stick with working it out with the one that I got 😉 😉 😉 ).
We are finally in the process of owning our very own FIRST home in our married life. 15 years in. That is a huge woot-woot from our side of the world.
And I am tied up and not expecting any more storks to come by—so my first half of life completed any NEW life that might pop right out of me.
So where do I go from here?
You know—although I am a bit freaked about forty (no matter how great you tell me it is), I pray with my entire heart that as I travel through each new day on my new side of the mountain, that I will always look up.
God has carried me, dragged me, and walked next to me for the first 40—and I am so thankful. I can’t imagine the new path without my same hiking companion.
So, where do I go from here?????
Anywhere He directs me to go.
And I look forward to that adventure!
God bless your side of the mountain, no matter which side that may be.
Oh, yeah…Enjoy my REAL day of 40 with my messy kids and lumberjack husband that built me just the BEST 40th birthday present a girl could hope for—a tennis wall!
Breakfast and Coffee…my husband knows the way to my heart!!!
His day off is Tuesday every week. Happy for me that my birthday fell on a Tuesday this year! He spent the entire day making my tennis wall outside. I love my lumberjack—he knows me so well!!!!
4-0 year old me!
Messy kids running around in underwear holding signs that say “Lordy Lordy Brookie Cookie’s 40!”
Max orchestrated the entire cake: not owie, Barbie mermaid, yummy pink frosting, and taste testing throughout!
This is what a 3-yr-old’s Barbie cake looks like for his mommy’s birthday!
Get it? 40!
My 5-Star birthday dinner by my hubs! Including homemade stuffed mushrooms with Brie cheese!
This love missed the entire party. But she is so cute it doesn’t matter!
And this love insisted on taking his Daddy shopping so I could have a special robot present for my big day. Needless to say, I have not been able to play with it much 😉